tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-81535633604127618722024-03-19T05:00:24.012-05:00Hope BloomsThis is a journey of adoption, foster care...a journey of finding myself, healing from past hurts, and building a dream of helping others on their journey.Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04982197788842283350noreply@blogger.comBlogger141125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8153563360412761872.post-77325523768090795662018-01-05T13:48:00.000-06:002018-01-05T13:49:08.120-06:00Marriage, Parenting, Trauma....do they relate?<br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So, two different scenarios= a not so peachy household at times. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Fostering and adopting are not easy callings. Without God on our side I don't think we would make it. It has been a hard two years....But I look back at where the kids were and see that love, consistency, and nurture have gone a long way. We went from not sleeping much, bad temper tantrums, food challenges, to sleeping mostly every night all night long, temper tantrums much less and food...well waiting on those to get better! Yes, we did join the locked cabinet club! I swore I would never do it. But it became necessary. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So, if your marriages is struggling in some areas since this journey began for you....figure out what are some things that you can do to improve it. Satan would love nothing more than to help break up your marriage....Adoption is at the very heart of God. He commands us to care for orphans. It isn't an option. Something that has God written all over it, Satan uses it to put separation between you and your spouse....Don't let Satan win!</span></div>
Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04982197788842283350noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8153563360412761872.post-1565130064161313912018-01-04T13:34:00.000-06:002018-01-04T13:34:25.605-06:00Parenting TraumaParenting is hard. Very Hard....Parenting children that have been through trauma is even harder. Just this morning, the foster child that usually is oblivious to many things going on around him was struggling.<br />
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I ran across a post of FaceBook that said this: "When children are regressing, increase nurture. Usually that fighting or distancing is caused by fear. Parents can hep the agitated child to slow down, accept comfort, talk about feelings, or improve his physical state. Gradually, children learn to seek out parents when they are hurting." Deborah Gray Attaching in Adoption<br />
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This child is our most "difficult" child. He will throw fits, cry loudly, is developmentally delayed. He asks question after question, even when he knows the answer. He takes a lot of our time. With something bothering, it just isn't like him. He was in tears because my husband was bringing him down to the bus instead of me. He didn't want to go to school. He does prefer to stay home. So this wasn't out of character. But he was more vocal about it today.<br />
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I am unsure if I will ever come across the big stuff that is bothering him. But I do know that I need to increase nurture to him. He does love touch. I think that is his love language. Which is low on my radar. So it is hard for me to actually do that.<br />
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Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04982197788842283350noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8153563360412761872.post-91593152974352279942018-01-03T13:23:00.000-06:002018-01-03T13:23:08.850-06:00Where Does the Time Go?<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">It has been a long time since I last wrote. Time sure does go by and there are so many things in between. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">To update on Shadrack, we still think of him daily. There are songs that we hear daily that trigger memories of him. He loved music, namely Toby Mac, and hearing Toby Mac music really gets us yearning to just go grab Shadrack. Not sure why it needs to be so difficult. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Currently, Shadrack is still waiting for his forever family. If we had another 20k at our disposal we could get him in a just a few short months. Unfortunately we just don't have access to this kind of money. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">One soft spot that we have is three other beautiful children in our midst. We started out fostering three kiddos over 2 years ago, and through a chain of events, these children couldn't go back home to mom, so on January 11th, we will adopt them. It will all be final. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">So moving forward on my blog, I want to start offering encouragement to others in the journey of adoptions that don't go as planned, marriage through fostering/adopting, practice tips and tools to use. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Please check back and learn and grow with me!</span>Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04982197788842283350noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8153563360412761872.post-30721557259785814932015-06-06T13:31:00.001-05:002015-06-06T13:31:26.775-05:00Bible DominoesI have spent nearly all my life and the only sort of dominoes that I would play were placing them on their ends and lining them in long lines and watching each one hit the next one...until they were all down. As I got older I would make more complex lines that would split into two lines...and then if you got half way done and knocked one the wrong way, your line would start a bit early. Well, recently some friends introduced us to the world of adult dominoes. Mexican train. We played until nearly midnight...I didn't fair so well in this game. But it was fun. I found a set for our family at a garage sale. We have enjoyed hours of fun with this game of Dominoes.<br />
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When I had the opportunity to get my hands on Bible Dominoes I was intrigued to see what this was about. I have a grand daughter who is nearly 3 so I thought we could have fun. She isn't exposed to a faith based home that often, so anything that would help her catch some of this, I was all in for. This game is for 2-4 players and for ages 3+. The cards are made from sturdy cardboard, so no stacking them and watching them all fall! There is a little book that tells some of the more popular Bible stories.<br />
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To play you match the colors which shows the number and on the other one it shows how many that number is. For instance 2= (two) people. So it is covering a few different concepts for your young learners. My granddaughter was a little young to catch this concept yet, but we could talk about what each picture was, and practice colors.<br />
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All in all they are good quality and a great way to start conversations with your youngsters! Total thumbs up!<br />
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I am not paid for my review, and have given an honest review of Bible Dominoes!Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04982197788842283350noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8153563360412761872.post-45632985258132336192015-03-13T21:26:00.002-05:002015-03-13T21:26:36.885-05:00Mercy's Rain<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Mercy's Rain is a book that hooked me from the minute I started it. Usually I need to be in a mood to read a historical book. This one is set in the late 1800's in Tennessee. </div>
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Mercy is the daughter of a Pastor. This Pastor simply gets away with TO MUCH! My heart goes out to this girl. Mercy endured alot in her short little life. She finally gets a chance to leave the only home she knows. Once she is able to leave, she is faced with many "ghosts in her closet". She relives the horrible things that happened to her, by a person she should trust, he father and a pastor. Mercy travels through the mountains and relives her past to finally put the past where is belongs....in the past.</div>
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I liked this book because we all have been through so much. In my life or family members close to me we have been through:</div>
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<li>enduring suicide</li>
<li>depression</li>
<li>sexual abuse</li>
<li>sexual assault</li>
<li>diseases</li>
<li>cancer</li>
<li>alcoholism</li>
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When looking at this list I think back to overcoming most of these, and the process that it takes. It is hard. Life throws you so many things that can leave you feeling bitter. But God's Mercy rains and washes over you...freely. Yours for the taking. Right now!</div>
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I received this book from Kregel Productions to review. I am not paid for my review. </div>
Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04982197788842283350noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8153563360412761872.post-82555331799939407222015-01-20T19:50:00.000-06:002015-01-20T19:50:04.101-06:00A New Study BibleHow can you review the Bible and post a bad review? I love to read new versions of the Bible and actually have a Bible that has three translations side by side. I love to read each version to see if I can pull something else from the verses. I have never owned a study Bible, so I snatched the opportunity to see what this Bible is about. Obviously I have not read this cover to cover...but I have enjoyed digging into some of my favorite verses. This Bible is written in the NKJV. This isn't usually one of my go to versions, so it was fun to look through and see some of my favorites.<br />
What I really like about this Bible is how it highlights what God's word says about evangelism. It takes verses and expands on them to help you see how you can simply carry out sharing your faith. Not everyone has the gift of evangelism, but reading these little insights help you to share your faith in everyday living.<br />
There are also passages that are listed to cross reference, so you can study more in depth. This helps the Bible come alive and will help you have a better understanding of what you are reading.<br />
God's word never gets old. Grab a new Bible and see what else He can teach you!<br />
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I was not paid for my review. I got a copy of this Bible for free and posted my review in all honesty!<br />
Enjoy!Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04982197788842283350noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8153563360412761872.post-72965867648961538182015-01-20T19:33:00.000-06:002015-01-20T19:43:19.766-06:00MotherlessMotherless by Erin Healy I just finished this book. I have to say it was very hard to get in to this book. But I persevered through it.<br />
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Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04982197788842283350noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8153563360412761872.post-34457019829858149842014-10-31T15:44:00.002-05:002014-10-31T15:44:44.941-05:00LifeLife is crazy...throws you so many curve balls.<br />
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Tell me your adoption story......Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04982197788842283350noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8153563360412761872.post-21303468363776413202014-10-31T15:37:00.002-05:002014-10-31T15:37:56.626-05:00What Mask Do You Have?I received this book to review but quickly read that there was a first book. So I downloaded the first book, To Know You on my kindle.<br />
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I really loved the first book. I can relate with the tough stuff the characters were going through. Character development was very good!<br />
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Each book tackled difficult content. Without the stigma of what comes with these issues. Life is so full of twists and turns and many times people find themselves doing or saying things they never thought they would say or do.<br />
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Veil of Secrets simply didn't have as good of character development as the first book in this series. I had a hard time following along at first with the characters. I enjoyed the over content of this book. But as I said, it was lacking better character development.<br />
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Overall, I recommend these books. Everyone struggles in one area or another that is covered in these books, and it is done in a gentle way that doesn't leaving you feeling more guilt and shame.<br />
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I received this book from Book Look Bloggers for free. To post my review in my honest opinion. I have not been paid to post this review!Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04982197788842283350noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8153563360412761872.post-8268938333405182962014-10-31T15:14:00.002-05:002014-10-31T15:14:21.032-05:00Thought Provoking Insight!Not really knowing what to expect of this book when I received it, I was pleasantly surprised.<br />
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Sundar Singh was known as one of the most famous converts to Christianity of his time. He obviously was a man of great wisdom. He passed in 1929. When he was just 16 he left his home and every comfort of home to live among the Sadhu people. This is where he learned what true Christianity is. Sadhu means holy man. Mr. Singh was known as a modern day Saint Francis, from India.<br />
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The book is similar to a devotional. There are short little chapters that are written as sort of modern day parables. They are very interesting to read. These bring a fresh perspective to parables of the Bible. The titles are creative, and are very thought provoking.<br />
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Mr Singh wandered as a holy man for 23 years, and traveled through at least 20 countries and four continents. He disappeared in the Himalayas in 1929. Many mourned his death. This gentleman touched many peoples lives.<br />
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This is a great devotional to start this upcoming new year. There are just over 20 short chapters that can be read weekly or are short enough for a daily encounter. I found these so thought provoking that I would think on them throughout the day. If you like to journal these would be perfect for getting you going.<br />
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I received this book from Plough Publishing house for free to review however I saw fit! I have not been paid to share my thoughts!Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04982197788842283350noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8153563360412761872.post-20528410374448886952014-09-29T13:30:00.001-05:002014-09-29T13:30:22.349-05:00Never Giving UpI recently had a chance to read over a book called "Never Ever Give Up" By Erik Rees with Jenna Glatzer.<br />
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A families world was shaken by news no parent needs to hear. No parent should have to contemplate the anguish of burying their daughter. But through this families journey of cancer, they find a unique way to bring Joy to other children having to battle cancer.<br />
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This story is told through the eyes of Jessie's dad. Erik does an incredible job of painting this picture with utter honesty. I am not sure I could be as eloquent in this journey. Life is difficult enough at times, but to face the death of your daughter is something unimaginable. The Rees family shows us how they stuck together....along with church family support.<br />
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I received a copy of this book to review from Handlebar Publishing. They have not paid me in anyway for my review. I have read this book, and gave you an honest review!Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04982197788842283350noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8153563360412761872.post-60361902496810160052014-09-10T13:05:00.000-05:002014-09-10T13:05:25.970-05:00SuicideToday is national Suicide prevention day....and are we any further in preventing suicide? Our local schools started a focus group....but I am saddened to say I have heard of nothing involving this day. Kids are hurting...why they are hurting I don't know....But it is evident that something needs to be done for this hurting world.<br />
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I have seen many discussions on how suicide is dealt with by family members. Some say, " Suicide is selfish". Then the other side says...how can you say it is selfish? Well, as I have had suicide in my husband's family, as a left behind family member, it is selfish. But it is also important to consider...I truly believe that someone cannot help it. They are so wrapped up in their grief that they can only think of themselves...I have suffered through depression. I didn't know what to call it. But felt off for several years. I finally began to understand what my sister in law lived through everyday...I could figure out ways to cope. But you literally have a dark cloud following you around, and quite frankly, the meds out there are not any good. Having lived through depression, it is selfish. I could only think of myself, and how much my life sucked. It isn't a fun place to be. I would nap as much as I could during the day, then hurry to clean to make it look like I had been busy all day, before my husband came home. I would go through lifes moments, with one foot in front of the other, but inside I was slowly dying....and crying inside all of the time.<br />
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One morning, I was at a Bible Study with a huge group of moms. We all sat at small group tables...We were doing Linda Dillows, Calm my Anxious heart book. The leaders turned to me and said, " Shannon, you sure are quiet". I remember being very uncomfortable, and wanting to run out of there. Later I journaled, "She doesn't know that inside I am crying, dying. I cannot figure out how to be happy. She doesn't know I have a story to tell. She doesn't know that my sister committed suicide, that my husband was just diagnosed with a debilitating disease. She doesn't know that I shop online just to feel good...She just doesn't know...<br />
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When I finally figured out what the heck was wrong with me, I had to tell my husband...my husband who often said...depression is just a cop out. Just snap out of it. What is wrong with people who say they are depressed...and I actually shared those opinions...but I suddenly found myself in the throws of depression and all that it entailed.<br />
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I am here to tell you, YOU CANNOT JUST SNAP OUT OF IT~! I did finally tell my husband. He was supportive, but didn't want me to go on any meds. Which, I wanted an easy fix...but I made an appointment to go see a doctor. I told her I had been suffering. She told me there was new evidence stating that exercise was recently shown to help with depression. So, we got our selves a gym membership. I started to meet with a friend 3 days a week....I am here to tell you...it took three months of going...but one morning I woke up and said...man I don't feel like crying today!<br />
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Whatever path you choose...natural and exercise, or meds...depression isn't fun. It is something I battle with every once in a while....but I know what I need to do to fix it. I get stuck...because frankly, it is comfortable to be stuck focusing on myself...but that isn't where God would want us to be. So I pick myself up and get moving...cleaning...going somewhere...Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04982197788842283350noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8153563360412761872.post-45555022383765810172014-09-10T12:31:00.001-05:002014-09-10T12:31:31.213-05:00The Confession: Robert Whitlow<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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The Confessions covers topics such as, Redemption, dealing with your past, choices we make, and doing the right thing. </div>
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Whitlow knows how to build strong characters. I was drawn in and hooked from the beginning...With a little suspense mixed in with a little love...The ending could have gone a few different ways, so it was somewhat of a surprise..and I felt that alot was left up to you to decide how the story really ended...if there was a disappointment, that would have been it...the ending! </div>
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I received this book from Thomas Nelson for free to review. I was not compensated in any way for my review. Grab a good book from Thomas Nelson!</div>
<br />Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04982197788842283350noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8153563360412761872.post-83139030604095401922014-07-10T11:49:00.000-05:002014-07-10T11:49:07.105-05:00The Bridge Tender<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I had to pleasure to review The Bridge Tender by MaryBeth Whalen. I simply loved this book. I have only read one other book of MaryBeth Whalens. Which I also loved! Emily Shaw is the main character who lost her beloved husband. He leaves her surprise that she had no idea about. </div>
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The Bridge Tender is a tender story of losing and being open to finding love again. It also weaves in reconciliation on past relationships. You will be sure to fall in love with several of the characters in the Bridge Tender. Whalen has perfect character development, along with weaving several story lines together. This book will make you want to learn more from each character...like maybe a series?? I also lover her raw honesty about adult relationships. Christian or not, we all struggle in marriage in many ways. Marriages are human and we all fight, get mad etc. I like that honesty on what is involved in being married!</div>
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Whalen's writing is perfect for an easy beach read that is easy to pick up and put down. As often happens when you have little ones to tend to. It is the perfect length. When you find a good book, you simply want it to last! The Bridge Tender is a book I will reccomend and pass along my copy to my circle of avid readers. </div>
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<br />Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04982197788842283350noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8153563360412761872.post-89930224238896528152014-05-19T13:13:00.001-05:002014-05-19T13:13:52.187-05:00Finding PassionI recently had the honor of peeking into Shannon Ethridge's newest book, The Passion Principle. On the cover she claims to offer 40 insightful answers to your most intimate questions. Ms. Ethridge takes the time to explore the Biblical principles of what God actually says about sex. Ethridge herself has tackled the latest craze of sexually explicit novels that have recently grabbed to many's interest.<br />
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Some of the question that are explored in a Biblically practical way are:<br />
1. What was God thinking when He created sex?<br />
2. How can I get past his or her sexual past?<br />
3. What if my heart is telling me I married the wrong person....<br />
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I enjoy how Ms. Ethridge takes the time to look at what the Bible says to these and more questions. Ethridge also has years of counseling women through these and many challenges. She offers many real life questions and answers. However she is sure to keep it confidential!<br />
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I think if you have struggled in any aspect of sex in marriage, this is a must read book. If you have never struggled, what could you possibly get out of it? At the end of some chapters are questions that you and your spouse can take turns chatting over and growing closer as a couple!<br />
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I received this book from Thomas Nelson publishers. I have reviewed this book on my own free will.Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04982197788842283350noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8153563360412761872.post-9947863561353438042014-04-28T19:37:00.000-05:002014-04-28T19:37:09.095-05:00<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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This book is set in the early 1940's during Hitlers reign. I have an obvious love for children and so to read about child rescuing is something I enjoy. </div>
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This book weaves the story of true to life feelings, friendships, families....it shows the true value that is taken from you oftentimes when you are helping someone else. The true cost of putting your life in danger during a time when the evil that surrounds you simply doesn't make sense. </div>
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A picture of one of the camps. Ruins of Riversaltes that was mentioned in the book. Horrible conditions....My heart simply aches all the more for what these families endured. My mind simply cannot imagine what parents had to go through. To think that after their children were rescued, they could have very well been put into camps again...which you will be able to read about in their upcoming book "Lord Willing"....they are hoping that God's will provides more to this story! Support these ladies today! Pick up both of the books in this series!<br />
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i have not been paid for my review. I was provided a copy to read and post this review with my own thoughts! I truly enjoyed this book!Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04982197788842283350noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8153563360412761872.post-6010127211935373752014-01-06T12:47:00.001-06:002014-01-06T12:47:53.095-06:00Children's Bible~99 Stories from the Bible<br />
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I recently had the pleasure of reviewing this neat little children's Bible. The Bible covers 99 stories from the Bible that are the most well known and a few that are not as well known. From Genesis and creation to Jesus coming again.<br />
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The stories in this little Bible are short and sweet for the littlest wee one. The pictures are bright and colorful and help catch the eye of the child that loves to see each picture.<br />
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I think a little children's Bible like this is a great way for your littlest ones to learn the timeless stories of the Bible. This book is sure to be a favorite among your children or grandchildren. Once these children start Sunday School they will already be familiar with the stories that are in this Bible.<br />
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I think this a great addition to your book collection. The Bible will come to life in your home.<br />
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I was not paid to post my review of this book. I obtained a free copy from Kregel Publications to review to my discretion.Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04982197788842283350noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8153563360412761872.post-50912205716119757692013-12-16T12:10:00.003-06:002013-12-16T12:10:59.409-06:00Hot ButtonsHot Buttons by Nicole O'Dell<br />
I have downloaded some of the Hot Buttons books to my ipad, but had not looked at them. I am still a great lover of print books. I really hope our world doesn't go totally digital. Recently I was able to grab two Hot Buttons in print. I was eager to get them and see what they are about. The two I have are Image Addition and Bullying. Both of which each of my kids have dealt with on certain levels.<br />
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I didn't know much about how the books work. But what I thought was different from what they really are about. I thought I could use them as small discussion guides with my children that we still have at home. But they are really a parents guide.<br />
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Each book is filled with insightful information for parents to utilize the teen years. Let's face it, kids are cruel. And hurting people end up hurting people. So any tool parents can get to navigate the teen/high school years, the better off our children will be.<br />
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I liked that the books were broken up into small chapters. They are perfect for grabbing a few minutes to read a quick chapter...but yet full of great information. Topics include Self Esteem, eating disorders, tattoos to teasing, cyber bullying and suicide.<br />
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There are several Hot Buttons books out there. Grab them up!!!<br />
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I received these two books to review for free. I was not paid to submit a review. I did it on my own free will~Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04982197788842283350noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8153563360412761872.post-38686252584614259312013-12-02T10:11:00.000-06:002013-12-02T10:11:21.225-06:00NIV Pink BibleI recently scored a "PINK BIBLE" to review! I was super excited. My dear daughter loves pink. My mother is a breast cancer survivor, so it was the perfect Bible to figure out who I would share it with once I was finished reading it over.<br />
I love the size of the Bible, it is soft cover which is nice for paging quickly threw. It is even adorned with a pink ribbon for those that do care.<br />
I tend to in general not support any of the ribbon causes...after much research, I don't believe that enough of the funds raised with these pink ribbons goes to actually find a cure for cancer. Which is a whole other topic for another post!<br />
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<br />Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04982197788842283350noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8153563360412761872.post-70983902656999499502013-11-16T02:00:00.000-06:002013-11-16T02:00:11.139-06:00One Year Ago....One year ago....on November 15th I brought Lauren and some friends down to the football game. My mom and I hung out and had dinner. Picked up the kids and were driving home. During the drive home I received a phone call from a number I didn't recognize, so I didn't answer it until I got home....A phone call I never imagined. The only other worse phone call it could have been was if it involved one of my children or husband....The phone call was about my dear friend Michelle....her husband Jason was on his way down to the hospital. they had flown Michelle down to I don't even know what hospital. What exactly happened was sketchy...but it didn't look good....<br />
After talking with Karen, we decided we wouldn't drive down to the hospital. But to this day...I am unsure if that was a good idea or not.<br />
Michelle leaves behind four precious children. Michelle leaves behind a husband. Many family members. Many pets. And a legacy of laughter over the most mundane events in your life....Give her a story and she runs with it and makes it an event of laughter.<br />
Michelle...I still miss you. There is ONLY ONE MICHELLE~<br />
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I have read most of B.Collins, D. Henderson, and T. Blackstocks books...and I would put Redwood in this category of must reads!</div>
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I just had a Facebook conversation from a great guy in Liberia. He checks in with us nearly everyday. He is having either liver or kidney challenges, and his medicine, which seems to be something natural is expensive for him. Liv52. Not sure what it is, but $15.00 is to much for him. So Wayne and I have been talking about what we could do to help him. His symptoms seem to be more kidney related. But doctor said liver...<br />
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Anyway, this gentleman, whom some of you have gotten friend requests from...I promise he is harmless. He is one of the few friends we have made over there who has not asked us for money. He was inquiring about Hope Blooms. I told him what we are doing, and that we hope to facilitate adoptions from Liberia in the coming new year. He said he knows of many people that want to place babies for adoption. It is common for the dad's to leave mom's. There was one gal pregnant when we were there, I am guessing she is one of them that he mentioned. But many people were raped during the war and cannot or are having a hard time caring for the children they now have. We have a full orphanage...but no orphanage.<br />
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I long to have Shadrack here. I long to help others families find forever love of children. And my heart hurts for those families that are making these selfless decisions...because as a mother, I know this isn't easy for them.<br />
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My mind is reeling on where I can get the funds...to have an orphange running well, we would need 2500-3500$ a month.<br />
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God can and will provide inside of His perfect will. But I feel like this needs to happen yesterday...so I am having a hard time feeling patient!<br />
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I know there are a lot of you who may read this and simply do not understand what it is we are doing. I know many people in our families are unsupportive. I challenge you to dig in your Bibles and see what God commands each and everyone of us to do. This isn't just a Wayne and Shannon thing. This is something we are all called to care about. And I am not saying everyone should adopt. Because not everyone should. But we are all called to help in some way.<br />
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I am waiting for our friend to send some pictures of children needing homes.....It will be a process to get this under way. Hope blooms won't even be licensed until January or February. But we can start working on this now~<br />
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Broken pieces from those that say they support you...but when asked to help in one way or another...the answer is no.<br />
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Broken for our country in general. <br />
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But I am reminded that through this muck, it is growing me. It is helping me to see how to be a better person through these disappointments...<br />
On one of our local radio stations the topic today is to call in and something good in your life! Well...three things popped into my head...amongst so many more...<br />
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First, some of our family has been soooo supportive of this journey. They have gone above and beyond the call of duty. Through prayer, finances, listening ear, encouragement. We truly are thankful for YOU~! I couldn't possibly name all of you...because I am sure I would forget. But know that we truly thank you from the bottom of our hearts...<br />
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Second, a friend who went above and beyond that calling of a friend...who is like our family! She offered a no interest loan for $5000.00. No questions asked. She offered it knowing where our hearts were/are. And when I don't post an update on here...she always asks....She is a big cheer leader for us and Hope Blooms. She gives without expecting in return. She was actually surprised and disappointed by the last post of FAQ, that people would actually ask those things. If you don't have a friend like this....find one! Everyone needs someone that they can count on....and I don't mean for finances...I mean for the friendship!<br />
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third...last week, our attorney received a phone call from the Adjudicator...(immigration). There were three things he was concerned about. Something with our insurance, which we have gotten back. A letter from Liberia...which we are assured it will be emailed today...who knows...ans lastly a co sponsor...To put it simply...because nothing with this process is simple, if something were to happen to Wayne and I, who will take over the care of Shadrack...so just some reassurance on their part. I asked my friend and she didn't even think about it...she knows our hearts. She knows our passions, she knows US! She said yes without even seeing what she had to do. I had nearly all her paperwork the next day. She even dared me to not follow through so she could have Shadrack....There is no chance of that!~!!<br />
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So, yes, this is all a mess. It is taking longer than we ever could hope for. We long to head to Liberia and snatch up Shadrack. We are frustrated when we have to email the orphanage several times with the same question and receive NO RESPONSE BACK.....but we are so blessed beyond compare to those of you who are supporting us...no matter what....If only I could live a little more like you. Thanks for being a roll model to us....to our kids. To people who don't believe in what we are doing. We can all learn from you...<br />
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So the update....all of our paperwork from two sources is ready to send to our attorney. The third from Liberia, hopefully that will come today. But I am surely not holding my breath. Then we have about a weeks time to wait on the mail....and we are pretty sure we will have a YES we can get the Visa. We will then make an appointment with the US Embassy in Liberia. Then we can book a flight...We are so excited for the day of landing at MSP..and seeing friends and family greet us and Shadrack. I DREAM OF THIS DAY!<br />
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Pray our government shutdown doesn't delay us getting Shadrack's Visa. We almost feel like we should get our kids Passports and go camp there until we get the Visa. If only life were that simple!<br />
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Shannon...for Wayne too!Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04982197788842283350noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8153563360412761872.post-80728255161148870312013-09-21T16:53:00.000-05:002013-09-21T17:26:50.180-05:00FAQ: but no one is asking!We have encountered many questions from people...but the questions or for lack of a better word accusations are not asked to us...So we will address them head on! But please, ask us. We would rather give you accurate information, than for you to talk behind our backs.<br />
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Adoption is an important call. A call we are all called to do. But NOT EVERYONE IS CALLED TO ADOPT! We are all called to help.<br />
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Question one:<br />
Why are they going all the way to Liberia when there are orphans here.<br />
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We have been pursuing adoption from foster care for several years. We see the huge importance. And there are MANY orphans in our back yard....currently around 400 of them just in MN. If everyone of you that reads this would adopt from foster care in MN, they would all be cared for. What are YOU going to do about that? We came across Shadrack last April. I tried to find him a home from Minnesota down to Texas. I told Wayne one night..."I've tried to find this blind little guy a home, or someone to help him medically, and I cannot find anyone." His answer, Why are we not doing something? Exactly. So when you ask us why we are not doing something here in Minnesota...I respectfully ask you...Why aren't you? Until I laid eyes on Shadrack, I wasn't quite sure we were doing the right thing. The Sunday before we left, I had all I could do to hold it together at church. I ran into a friend who excited asked me if I was ready to go and how exciting...and I broke down and couldn't even put it into words the emotions I was feeling....I have dreamed of adopting for years...and my dream was coming true...but i was headed to a country that I knew very little about....I was leaving behind my children. And we were NOT LOOKING TO BRING A ONE YEAR OLD INTO OUR HOME! But, things worked out, and God willing we will bring Shadrack here in the next couple of weeks!<br />
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Question 2:<br />
They can't afford to adopt/care for another child....<br />
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God has provided thus far. Through Waynes retirement, through generous family and friends. Through some fundraisers. Everything has worked out. Frankly, we can't afford not to bring Shadrack or possibly other children into our homes. Plus our finances are really none of your business! With all due respect!<br />
Currently the fundraiser last weekend has given us plane tickets and room while we are there...if we can get tickets cheap enough that is! We are confident that it will all work out....<br />
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Question 3:<br />
We now have grandchildren, we won't have time for them with a one year old....<br />
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Shadrack will require care and attention. But he also loves to sit and listen to music. He is really a very easy baby. I stayed home with 5 children, and Wayne worked his butt off with a full time job...I think I can handle 2 one year olds and a 4 year old. And I look forward to it. We obviously love kids...No brainer!<br />
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Question 4:<br />
The fundraiser last weekend was a publicity pull for Hope Blooms...<br />
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All I can say is WOW! Us caring for Shadrack has nothing to do with Hope Blooms. But we are doing what Hope Blooms stands for. We are caring for the worlds orphans...plus some.... We have never profited from Hope Blooms. All donations go back into helping the families that we service...those caring for orphans...Donations last weekend, which is another question we have been asked...behind our back, are going to bring Shadrack to the US for essential medical care. And any funds beyond that will go for medical care while he is here. Simple as that! Weather we get him here in a couple of weeks, or weather we get him here in a couple of months. If you don't feel like you want to help a boy our with medical care...then don't. Simple as that. We are thankful for those that have helped. And we are excited to share him with those that care.<br />
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Watch that video...if it doesn't get to you...Then you should come to Liberia with us...see what we saw. Learn what we learned. Orphans are mentioned frequently in the Bible...and it is very clear we are all called to help in some way.<br />
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Hope Blooms will soon become licensed to facilitate adoptions through Liberia. That is how passionate we are about this. Wayne is ready to head back to Liberia on trips to check on an orphanage that we partner with...We are living out a call...what will YOU DO?Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04982197788842283350noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8153563360412761872.post-63775727939976576702013-09-18T15:28:00.001-05:002013-09-18T15:28:17.922-05:00Apple Jacks: No Clowning AroundOne of the highlights on Sunday was Apply Jack the Clown! I was hoping to get a picture before I posted our thanks...but I do not have one yet! So will update with a picture when I can!<br />
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Kids loved following around the mute Clown. He riled the troops and was surely a high light of the day!<br />
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thanks Apple Jacks for sharing in the day of Shadrack Support!Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04982197788842283350noreply@blogger.com0